Who said “Women who are either indisputably beautiful, or indisputably ugly, are best flattered…”?

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Lord Chesterfield. A published source records them saying or writing it.

SourceLetters to His Son on the Art of Becoming a Man of the World and a Gentleman (1774), 5 September 1748

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“Women who are either indisputably beautiful, or indisputably ugly, are best flattered upon the score of their understandings; but those who are in a state of mediocrity are best flattered upon their beauty, or at least their graces: for every woman who is not absolutely ugly, thinks herself handsome.”
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Chesterfield, L. (n.d.). Women who are either indisputably beautiful, or indisputably ugly, are best flattered upon the score of their understandings; but those who are in a state of mediocrity are best flattered upon their beauty, or at least their graces: for every woman who is not absolutely ugly, thinks herself handsome. [Quotation]. Famous Quotations Network. Retrieved October 24, 2026, from https://www.famous-quotations.com/quotes/18014-women-who-are-either-indisputably-beautiful-or-indisputably/

MLA

Chesterfield, Lord. “Women who are either indisputably beautiful, or indisputably ugly, are best flattered upon the score of their understandings; but those who are in a state of mediocrity are best flattered upon their beauty, or at least their graces: for every woman who is not absolutely ugly, thinks herself handsome.” Famous Quotations Network, https://www.famous-quotations.com/quotes/18014-women-who-are-either-indisputably-beautiful-or-indisputably/. Accessed 24 Oct. 2026.

Chicago

Chesterfield, Lord. “Women who are either indisputably beautiful, or indisputably ugly, are best flattered upon the score of their understandings; but those who are in a state of mediocrity are best flattered upon their beauty, or at least their graces: for every woman who is not absolutely ugly, thinks herself handsome.” Famous Quotations Network. Accessed October 24, 2026. https://www.famous-quotations.com/quotes/18014-women-who-are-either-indisputably-beautiful-or-indisputably/.