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Charles Horton Cooley. A published source records them saying or writing it.

SourceHuman Nature and the Social Order, 1902, p. 184-5 (1922)

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“We are ashamed to seem evasive in the presence of a straightforward man, cowardly in the presence of a brave one, gross in the eyes of a refined one, and so on. We always imagine, and in imagining share, the judgments of the other mind.”
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Cooley, C. H. (n.d.). We are ashamed to seem evasive in the presence of a straightforward man, cowardly in the presence of a brave one, gross in the eyes of a refined one, and so on. We always imagine, and in imagining share, the judgments of the other mind. [Quotation]. Famous Quotations Network. Retrieved October 24, 2026, from https://www.famous-quotations.com/quotes/24707-we-are-ashamed-to-seem-evasive-in-the/

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Cooley, Charles Horton. “We are ashamed to seem evasive in the presence of a straightforward man, cowardly in the presence of a brave one, gross in the eyes of a refined one, and so on. We always imagine, and in imagining share, the judgments of the other mind.” Famous Quotations Network, https://www.famous-quotations.com/quotes/24707-we-are-ashamed-to-seem-evasive-in-the/. Accessed 24 Oct. 2026.

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Cooley, Charles Horton. “We are ashamed to seem evasive in the presence of a straightforward man, cowardly in the presence of a brave one, gross in the eyes of a refined one, and so on. We always imagine, and in imagining share, the judgments of the other mind.” Famous Quotations Network. Accessed October 24, 2026. https://www.famous-quotations.com/quotes/24707-we-are-ashamed-to-seem-evasive-in-the/.