Who said “The institution of marriage in all societies is a pattern within which the strains put…”?

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Margaret Mead. A published source records them saying or writing it.

Source"Male and Female" in Ladies' Home Journal, Vol. 66, (September 1949), p. 36

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“The institution of marriage in all societies is a pattern within which the strains put by civilization on males and females alike must be resolved, a pattern within which men must learn, in return for a variety of elaborate rewards, new forms in which sexual spontaneity is still possible, and women must learn to discipline their receptivity to a thousand other considerations.”
— Margaret Mead
Verified"Male and Female" in Ladies' Home Journal, Vol. 66, (September 1949), p. 36 · evidenceMarriage
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Mead, M. (n.d.). The institution of marriage in all societies is a pattern within which the strains put by civilization on males and females alike must be resolved, a pattern within which men must learn, in return for a variety of elaborate rewards, new forms in which sexual spontaneity is still possible, and women must learn to discipline their receptivity to a thousand other considerations. [Quotation]. Famous Quotations Network. Retrieved October 24, 2026, from https://www.famous-quotations.com/quotes/28189-the-institution-of-marriage-in-all-societies-is/

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Mead, Margaret. “The institution of marriage in all societies is a pattern within which the strains put by civilization on males and females alike must be resolved, a pattern within which men must learn, in return for a variety of elaborate rewards, new forms in which sexual spontaneity is still possible, and women must learn to discipline their receptivity to a thousand other considerations.” Famous Quotations Network, https://www.famous-quotations.com/quotes/28189-the-institution-of-marriage-in-all-societies-is/. Accessed 24 Oct. 2026.

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Mead, Margaret. “The institution of marriage in all societies is a pattern within which the strains put by civilization on males and females alike must be resolved, a pattern within which men must learn, in return for a variety of elaborate rewards, new forms in which sexual spontaneity is still possible, and women must learn to discipline their receptivity to a thousand other considerations.” Famous Quotations Network. Accessed October 24, 2026. https://www.famous-quotations.com/quotes/28189-the-institution-of-marriage-in-all-societies-is/.

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