Who said “A man's real life is that accorded to him in the thoughts of other men by reason of…”?

“It is absurd to divide people into good and bad. People are either charming or tedious.”

“I am convinced we do not only love ourselves in others but hate ourselves in others too.”

“The only thing that could spoil a day was people. People were always the limiters of happiness except for the very few that were as good as spring itself.”

“The eyes of others our prisons; their thoughts our cages.”

“What we know of other people's only our memory of the moments during which we knew them.”

“Perhaps life is just that... a dream and a fear.”

“A man is a worker. If he is not that he is nothing.”

“A man's most open actions have a secret side to them.”

“Words, as is well known, are the great foes of reality.”

“Facing it — always facing it — that's the way to get through.”

“What all men are really after is some form, or perhaps only some formula, of peace.”