Who said “Debate is masculine, conversation is feminine.”?

“The opposite of talking isn't listening. The opposite of talking is waiting.”

“I find we are growing serious, and then we are in great danger of being dull.”

“There is no such thing as conversation. It is an illusion. There are intersecting monologues, that is all.”

“Say nothing good of yourself, you will be distrusted; say nothing bad of yourself, you will be taken at your word.”

“We do not talk -- we bludgeon one another with facts and theories gleaned from cursory readings of newspapers, magazines and digests.”

“Our ideals are our better selves.”

“One must be a wise reader to quote wisely and well.”

“To be ignorant of one's ignorance is the malady of the ignorant.”

“Strengthen me by sympathizing with my strength, not my weakness.”

“The less routine the more life.”

“Where there is a mother in the home, matters go well.”