Who said “People named John and Mary never divorce. For better or for worse, in madness and in…”?

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John Cheever. A published source records them saying or writing it.

SourceThe Sixties, 1966 entry.

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“People named John and Mary never divorce. For better or for worse, in madness and in saneness, they seem bound together for eternity by their rudimentary nomenclature. They may loathe and despise one another, quarrel, weep, and commit mayhem, but they are not free to divorce. Tom, Dick, and Harry can go to Reno on a whim, but nothing short of death can separate John and Mary.”
— John Cheever
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Cheever, J. (n.d.). People named John and Mary never divorce. For better or for worse, in madness and in saneness, they seem bound together for eternity by their rudimentary nomenclature. They may loathe and despise one another, quarrel, weep, and commit mayhem, but they are not free to divorce. Tom, Dick, and Harry can go to Reno on a whim, but nothing short of death can separate John and Mary. [Quotation]. Famous Quotations Network. Retrieved October 24, 2026, from https://www.famous-quotations.com/quotes/1704-people-named-john-and-mary-never-divorce-for/

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Cheever, John. “People named John and Mary never divorce. For better or for worse, in madness and in saneness, they seem bound together for eternity by their rudimentary nomenclature. They may loathe and despise one another, quarrel, weep, and commit mayhem, but they are not free to divorce. Tom, Dick, and Harry can go to Reno on a whim, but nothing short of death can separate John and Mary.” Famous Quotations Network, https://www.famous-quotations.com/quotes/1704-people-named-john-and-mary-never-divorce-for/. Accessed 24 Oct. 2026.

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Cheever, John. “People named John and Mary never divorce. For better or for worse, in madness and in saneness, they seem bound together for eternity by their rudimentary nomenclature. They may loathe and despise one another, quarrel, weep, and commit mayhem, but they are not free to divorce. Tom, Dick, and Harry can go to Reno on a whim, but nothing short of death can separate John and Mary.” Famous Quotations Network. Accessed October 24, 2026. https://www.famous-quotations.com/quotes/1704-people-named-john-and-mary-never-divorce-for/.

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