Who said “Thy friend has a friend, and thy friend's friend has a friend; be discreet.”?

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SourceBabylonian Talmud, Bava Batra 28b ('be discreet' is a later addition)

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“Thy friend has a friend, and thy friend's friend has a friend; be discreet.”
— The Talmud
Original (Aramaic), Bava Batra 28b

חברך חברא אית ליה וחברא דחברך חברא אית ליה

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The Talmud. “Thy friend has a friend, and thy friend's friend has a friend; be discreet.” Famous Quotations Network, https://www.famous-quotations.com/quotes/20209-thy-friend-has-a-friend-and-thy-friends/. Accessed 24 Oct. 2026.

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The Talmud. “Thy friend has a friend, and thy friend's friend has a friend; be discreet.” Famous Quotations Network. Accessed October 24, 2026. https://www.famous-quotations.com/quotes/20209-thy-friend-has-a-friend-and-thy-friends/.

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