Who said “It's not the tragedies that kill us, it's the messes.”?

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Dorothy Parker. A published source records them saying or writing it.

SourceInterview, The Paris Review (Summer 1956)

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Parker, D. (n.d.). It's not the tragedies that kill us, it's the messes. [Quotation]. Famous Quotations Network. Retrieved October 24, 2026, from https://www.famous-quotations.com/quotes/28861-its-not-the-tragedies-that-kill-us-its/

MLA

Parker, Dorothy. “It's not the tragedies that kill us, it's the messes.” Famous Quotations Network, https://www.famous-quotations.com/quotes/28861-its-not-the-tragedies-that-kill-us-its/. Accessed 24 Oct. 2026.

Chicago

Parker, Dorothy. “It's not the tragedies that kill us, it's the messes.” Famous Quotations Network. Accessed October 24, 2026. https://www.famous-quotations.com/quotes/28861-its-not-the-tragedies-that-kill-us-its/.